
I'm Cathy and this is my story...
For more years than I care to remember, I masked the pain of my traumatic background, pushing through life as if everything was fine.
On the outside, I was successful, but inside, I was constantly battling self-doubt, perfectionism, and a deep fear of not being enough.
For 25 years, I built myself a career in the corporate world. I was driven, ambitious, and always striving for the next goal, the next success, the next proof that I was good enough. I thrived in high-pressure environments, meeting targets, and pushed myself harder with every passing year.
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But on the inside, it was a different story.
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I was constantly second-guessing myself, battling an inner critic that told me I had to work harder, achieve more, and never let anyone see a flaw. No matter how much I accomplished, it never felt enough. I held myself to impossibly high standards, afraid that if I ever stopped, slowed down, or let my guard down, I’d somehow fail.
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The Breaking Point
Years of perfectionism and people-pleasing had taken their toll. I was burnt out, emotionally drained, and completely disconnected from my own needs. I had spent decades proving my worth through my work —without ever stopping to ask if I truly believed in my own worth, outside of what I achieved.
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I ignored the exhaustion.
I ignored the self-doubt and ignored the growing feeling that something wasn't right!
Until I couldn’t ignore it anymore as I was close to a breakdown.
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It wasn’t until I faced my own complex trauma from childhood and relationships that I truly began to heal.
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So, I stepped away. I left behind the world that had shaped so much of my identity and began the difficult but transformative process of healing everything that had kept me stuck.
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The experience of healing through my own counselling journey led me to retrain as a counsellor and coach, and over the last 5 years I’ve helped thousands of other women do the same.
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My Qualifications & Approach
Healing from trauma requires more than just talking—it requires a safe, compassionate approach that recognises how trauma affects both the mind and body. That’s why I integrate a blend of counselling, coaching, and trauma-informed techniques to support deep, lasting change.
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✔ CPCAB Levels 2, 3 & 4 in Therapeutic Counselling
✔ Level 7 Diploma in Life Coaching
✔ Levels 1, 2 & 3 in Trauma Informed Counselling
✔ Certificate in Online and Telephone Counselling
✔ Level 2 in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
✔ Level 2 in Solution Focused Therapy
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I am a registered member of the British Association of Counsellors and Psychotherapists, meaning that I adhere to a strong code of ethics in order to put your needs first!
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But beyond the qualifications, what matters most is that I truly understand. I know what it’s like to feel stuck, and I also know the freedom that comes with healing. My approach is warm, non-judgmental, and deeply rooted in self-compassion.
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If you’re ready to take the first step, I’d love to support you.
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